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Thursday, October 23, 2008


Oct 23 2008 --- Of the 眼不见为净


its thursday ... 1 more day to friday ... okie ... thats the catchline for the 933 dj ... hahaha ... the positive voice will even go "its monday ... 4 more days to friday" hmmm ... its gonna be a long weekend ... hmmm ... the public holiday that supposedly on tues suddenly shifted to mon ~ ok lah ... not that i mind it XD i think i really need a break ... i love to have a longer break ... like a week or so at least ... get away from work and sorta things ... but i m also reluctant to compromise on the leave that i wan to bring forward to next year ... so it leaves me with almost no leave to have the break i want to have ... no best of both worlds i guess ...

u know ... i always see movies where pple will ask someone to do some things on their behalf ... like the dad asking the mum to show concern for the child coz he doesnt want to step down from his nonchalant fatherly image ... or lending money to a person who u care for but the person simply hates u and would not wan ur help so u will get someone to take ur money and loan it instead ... or maybe the guy likes the ger and wanted to warn her against her bf but any words from the guy will only make it sound intentional to sabotage the couples relationship so can only hope there are independent person to say it instead ... really ... it always seems dramatic until it happen in real life ... okie ... i see it in my surroundings at least ... irony and abit comical somemore hahaha ...

now i understand that there are really genuine cases of conflict of interests and yup ... the value of words ... when it comes out of different mouths ... has totally different value and weightage ... or in same cases ... it is juz so 无奈 when it come to things that it shld be said but cannot say coz it is juz going to sound so biased and 有心机 ... maybe someone in a better position will do so ??

although being a guy myself ... i m (with a few close guy frens) in line with them that guys juz arent reliable ... and it is best to make them earn our trust rather than the begin with giving them 100% trust approach ... juz like when a guy deviates from usual self ... be it for the better or worse ... it muz have happened for a reason ... and 90% of the time ... its making amendments ... of coz ... if that change for the better is being kept up for a reasonable period of time then i guess i would be inclined to believe that it is really meant to be juz a good change ... but the chances of it being that ... not high lah =P

bottomline ... 平常心 ... certain things are just meant to be ... believe in it is ok ... dun get too devoted in the belief ...

for those bystanders who finds it unbearable to see the progress ... its better to 眼不见为净 ... juz close ur eyes ... put it down ... let it go ... and leave ... leave things to fate ... hmmm ... 是时候了吗? maybe very soon it will be .....


KeL speaks @9:44 AM                                    _`天注定`_