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Monday, April 24, 2006


Apr 24 2006 --- Being loved is a bliss


被爱是幸福爱人是痛苦?

just how true this is ?

hmmm ... we are always hearing things like
(1) "so hard to find a guy whom is really good to me"
(2) "if he can juz change that part of him then it will be perfect"
(3) "y doesnt he love me?"

familiar or not ? if u r always hearing that ... then i guess the heading is true ... to b loved is a bliss ... to love is a pain ... for (1) ... it isnt that hard ... a person can really be good to u ... but u may not like that person ... so wat's the use even if u meant the world to that person ... still end up no chemistry ... for (2) ... if the person is so perfect or near perfect ... it means that the person is much sought after and in turn ... may not end up choosing u as the partner ... for (3) ... this is most probably the easiest to answer among all love qns ... for a simple reason ... if u wan to choose ur partner ... others most prob want to choose theirs too ^-^ ... if u are asking y that person dun love u ... then there are definately pple who r asking y u dun love them too ... and if u know y u dun love those who love u then u shld know the answer as to y the person u love dun love u (messy ??) ... juz need to make urself face reality ...

wouldnt it be perfect if both parties is equally mutually in love with each other ? ya lah ... sibei ideal ... but hello *shook shook* wake up lah ... reality derives from realistic ... if u r realistic enuff then u would most probably realise that it rarely happens ... or maybe it doesnt even happen at all ... but humans juz tend to rebel ... rebel against nature flow ... so there r boundless pple trying to achieve their ideal love while dying or hurting badly in the process ... they r bound to say that they r not going to try again but u see them trying again the very next chance that float by -__-

have u thot about how u r going to love in future ? or maybe how u had been loving since the past ? hmmm ... sometimes isnt it simpler to juz indulge in the bliss of being loved ? hahaha ... few would do that ... indeed ... or i shld say that it takes alot of hurt accumulated to stop a person from striving to love and choose being loved instead ... doing abit of alternative presentation ... there are indeed methods to achieve ideal love state ... or rather let that special someone who holds u dearly 'enjoy' the ideal love state ...

onto giving someone the ideal love state ... juz like the way some parents 'pressured' their kids with piano ... ballet ... foreign languages ... swimming ... computer courses ... tuition ... sports ... then onto those lavish toys ... electronics products ... high end mobiles ... y r they doing that ? hmmm ... instead of attributing solely to the society and the kiasu mechanism ... sometimes it is juz a simple parents' wish to give wat they didnt have or wat they yearn to have when they were once young ... ya lah ... they didnt get those perks back then ... so they wanted their kids to have them in place of wat they missed out on ... likewise ... yes ... indeed it is very tough to have equally mutually in love couple ... coz it is juz that tough to have a match between 2 persons ... harder than bone marrow match ... harder than liver transplant match ... BUT ... if there is one party whom is willing to make adjustments to try to match ... then the whole thing becomes easier ^-^ ... meaning that u do some reverse engineering and isolate out a person whom love u first ... then u go on to love that person as much in return ... can be done ?? hahaha ... maybe u b commenting that the person may not be the person u love the most ... but well ... at least if u try to love the person back u will allow that person who loves u to enjoy the feeling of having a equally mutually in love relationship (of coz this means that u cant let her feel that ur loving in return is fake) ... u may not be able to really enjoy being with the person u loved the most ... but u will be able to see the joy of ur partner when they get to b with the person they love the most ... by being with her ... is it beginning to sound torturing on urself ?? hahahaha ... talking seriously maybe i m personally still in the state of seeking love ... i dun yearn to b loved yet (or maybe i dun feel anyone waiting for me or loving me silently) ... but i somehow know right from the start that i most probably be fulfilling a particular someone's wish of being able to be with the person she loved most ... ya lah ... by then i will love her for loving me and in turn love her more than she love me ... that's bliss ... really bliss ^_^ at least to me ... it is bliss ...

ps: oh ya ... today is first year anniversary of me n jas gerger ^-^ happy anniversary !~!!~! hahaha ... sounds scandalous ah ??


KeL speaks @11:41 AM                                    _`天注定`_