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Tuesday, June 06, 2006


Jun 6 2006 --- I m bored at work ...


hmmm ... bored at work can do wat ??? blog lor =Pp i learnt a new word ... relativism ... somehow i duno how far it is related to relativity ... hmmm ... skali both words are relatives ??? hahaha ... okie ... hmmm ... anyway ... i think i know more of relativity than relativism ...

sometimes we tend to say that we need to change ourselves to suit the environment ... while Guinness will tell u to change the environment to suit ourselves ... eh ... sometimes its kinda tough lah ... but well ... there is always alternatives ... u cant change the environment BUT u can always go to another environment isnt it ??

example ... Da Vinci Code ... personally i never seen the movie nor read the book ... all the things is heard about it from others de ... maybe it's right maybe it's wrong ... heard bout the show trying to show that Jesus actually gotten married and had a child ... and it create some unease among Christians who see it as an insult and claiming fake calls ... and desperately bombing the film as fake ... ridiculous etc etc ... hmmm ... okie ... the point is ... is it really that impt ? generally accepted is that Jesus is God ... so now got rumours that He was married ... got child ... so wat ? Does it make Him any less holy ?? if u are in an environment that pple believe the movie while u dun ... simply move away ... wat for try so hard to convince everyone that the movie is fake ?? afterall it is a movie pls ...

or maybe u r a guy ... now u wan to be a ger ... knn cfm hong kan liao ... cfm keena condemn like hell ... pple label u ah kua ... pple see u as a chicken standing at changi village ... hmmm ... yeah ... most prob u freak pple out ... hmmm .. u go thailand lah ... down there ah kua alot ... somemore got beauty contest ... this kinda beauty is accepted there ... pple respect them there ... so it's all about doing the correct thing in the correct place ... He Li Xiu ... korean star ... went sex change then now also famous mah ... though alot pple may condemn 'him' still ... but likewise ... 'he' got 'his' own fans too ... see the point bo ? no one decide that guy muz be guy de ... no one say cannot change ... juz that maybe the culture cannot accept it nia ... yes ... generally morally wrong ... but who the hell say so in the first place ??? it's juz a culture from majority that had passed from ancient time till now ... not any law lor ... china last time those enunchs ?? wat u classified them as ?? got pple condemn them meh ?? but at least u change sex change IC gender then still can apply HDB flat lor ... get it ?? govt also never say against the law ...

gays n les ... wah liew ... okie ... generally accepted practice is for two opposite genders to be together ... but who say so de ?? i duno where i was at during ancient times ... maybe an animal or wat but i only know that since young the exposure is that the stick goes into the hole ... as fitting as 2 pieces of a puzzle ... so muz be the correct combination liao ... that's about it ... most prob my parents also discover the stick n hole theory and conclude that their union was the correct combination too ... but wat is there to stop other combinations ?? i personally like martell with green tea ... but arent there others who does it with hot water ... ice water ... coke ... even 7-up ... the thing is ... they find that combination satisfying to their taste buds ... so they juz go ahead isnt it ?? if someone tries it with cyanide ... most prob they wun find it pleasing ... or maybe they wun even know about it by then ... then the rest will know ... nabei ... martell mix cyanide cannot make it ...

bottomline is ... everyone goes thru a process to seek wat they are after ... some values the result while others value the process ... we go into relationship with some seeking for love ... some seeking sex ... some wan descendents ... some seek pure companionship ... see ... a simple thing can hav so many different yearnings ... of coz some of the wants cannot be fulfilled by having a couple of same sex like having children ... but ... the point is ... if that is wat some couples can do without ... i guess nothing wrong with watever combinations ... indeed i have seen non-hetro couples putting normal couples to shame thru their true love ... juz that maybe it was done at the wrong location ... wrong time ... wrong era ...

to me ... there's no dictator for moral rights or wrongs ... maybe only generally accepted practices ... when one does something generally not accepted ... it SEEMS wrong ... but well ... boils down to individuals to decide if it is really right or wrong ...


KeL speaks @4:01 PM                                    _`天注定`_