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Monday, December 04, 2006


Dec 4 2006 --- Me & Him


i had a 'talk' with someone during work ... some things emerged from it ... it seems that i m kinda back into the pondering mood again hahaha ... the person is a typical job hopper who didnt stayed long at his jobs ...

Me: how u find the place here?
Him: not bad lah but i m not the kind who can stay long ...
Me: then wat for u come in on a perm basis then ?
Him: juz in case i stayed long enuff then dun waste the bonus lor hahaha
Me: hmmm ... working without any aim quite meaningless rite ??
Him: nope ... i work with an aim ... in fact every job i went into has an aim ...
Me: which is ?
Him: to get out of it ...
Me: hahaha ... u like interview alot is it? -_- i dread the interview and repeating the knowing pple from scratch thingy lor ...
Him: i also human ... u think i like it meh hahaha ... i dun like it too but bo bian leh ... taking it on a positive note ... if i can get out of a job it means i moved on to something better le mah ... in a sense it isnt that bad rite ?
Me: i guess it boils down to wat a person really want out of a job ... or rather ... wat he wants in life ...
Him: right on !~ some work for a living ... some for passion ... some for convenience ... likewise ... some live for the sake of living ... some live life to the fullest ... while some juz live for other pple ... largely depends on wat u want to achieve in life ... u know wat u want ?
Me: *stumped* hmmm ... i cant pin point ... i only have outlines ... vague at times ... u know wat u want already ?
Him: mine also blurred ... but i dun need it to be clear ... i juz need a clear finish point ... the process i dun mind ... so long as can get there ... i m result oriented in that sense =)
Me: isnt it easier to have a plan ?
Him: hahaha eh ... u really dun look like a person who always plan lor ... dun tell me u always plan leh ...
Me: -__-
Him: anyway it is good to plan but the thing is ... how often does things go according to plan ?
Me: *nod*
Him: i think i juz need a mental map ... and along the way ... tackle things as it comes ... i think an achiever isnt someone who can execute plans ... he should be someone who can tackle changes and react ... that's the kind of flexibility and versatility an achiever shld possess ... agreeable ?
Me: *nod* on top of that ... need to have calmness in times of adversity and to mitigate damage before it become full blown ...
Him: hahaha ... y u always think about "when things goes wrong" situations de ...
Me: good mah ... prepared for the worst and hope for the best ...
Him: nono ... wrong ... prepare for the worst is fine ... but best is not something to hope for ... u have to go for it de ... the best wun come find u de lor ... unless someone planned for u to have it ...
Me: hahaha ... okok ... i rephrase ... prepare for the worst and go for the best !~!~
Him: hahaha ... that's better !~ so wat's ur aim in here then ?
Me: hahahaha ... KPO ...
Him: share share mah ... anyway ... u dun say i also know lor ...
Me: no comments =/
Him: we can crap so much means frequency similar liao mah ... u here for XXXXXXXXXX rite ??
Me: hahahaha ... maybe ba =)
Him: k lah ... seeya ard ah !~
Me: *nod* i hope u will stay longer this time round ?? =Pp
Him: see how lah ... still early to say lah ...
Me: *nod* =)

oh ya ... remember that i said i had CLOSE to 20 cousins ?? gratz to Uncle Sam ... on the arrival of my 20th cousin ... baby boy ... name unknown yet !~


KeL speaks @10:21 AM                                    _`天注定`_