how easy or how hard is it to be nice ? i mean ... there are the so called Mr Nice Guy .. Ms Nice Girl ... Nice People ... that we encounter along the way ... but really ... wat is nice ?

i guess being nice at times merely equates to saying yes to everyones request ... giving in to their demands ... going the extra mile ... yeah ... i guess a perosn who say yes everytime will have pple finding them nice ... think of it ... i think if thats the case ... i m quite nice too ... nah ... not that i always say yes to pple ... its more like i m bad at saying no ...

but truefully ... to be nice ... the basic thing is probably to mean it ... wats the point of saying yes then feel unjust at the bottom ? typically ... its like embarking on a journey that u cannot fulfill evenutally ... like the way i told Lyn ... some things are hard to achieve or maintain ...

personally ... yes ... there are times when i did certain things for certain pple and i feel like very wei qu after doing it ... i guess if thats the case ... juz hide in isolation and tide it over isnt it ? no one force the choice ... imagine if i start whining about wat i had to do after i willingly say yes in the first place ... i guess the one whom i did for will probably be too shy to remind me abt that but i assure u ... behind the back ... pple will snigger and comment de lor ... or how abt the sentence "its ok lah" then the next time pop up ... "aiya ... nm lah ... not the first time u did that" ... i mean ... come on ... if u gonna bring it up again publicly in future ... jolly well make it clear that it is forgiven but not forgotten then ... i think if it is between 2 persons and the past is brought up in future talk between juz the 2 persons it is still fine ... but to openly shoot it off is really really quite dotzz ...

seriously ... i dun really care how well perceived u r to others ... but sadly ... u dun mean much to me ... or rather ... the little worth i gave u is probably juz out of cliche which is meant to make things easy for another person ... but trust me ... as a fren maybe u do well ... but dun go ard pms-ing and well ... first few times might gain some results ... and it will become a burden as time goes by ... u can pms as u wish ...

how easy or how hard is it to be nice ? i mean ... there are the so called Mr Nice Guy .. Ms Nice Girl ... Nice People ... that we encounter along the way ... but really ... wat is nice ?

i guess being nice at times merely equates to saying yes to everyones request ... giving in to their demands ... going the extra mile ... yeah ... i guess a perosn who say yes everytime will have pple finding them nice ... think of it ... i think if thats the case ... i m quite nice too ... nah ... not that i always say yes to pple ... its more like i m bad at saying no ...

but truefully ... to be nice ... the basic thing is probably to mean it ... wats the point of saying yes then feel unjust at the bottom ? typically ... its like embarking on a journey that u cannot fulfill evenutally ... like the way i told Lyn ... some things are hard to achieve or maintain ...

personally ... yes ... there are times when i did certain things for certain pple and i feel like very wei qu after doing it ... i guess if thats the case ... juz hide in isolation and tide it over isnt it ? no one force the choice ... imagine if i start whining about wat i had to do after i willingly say yes in the first place ... i guess the one whom i did for will probably be too shy to remind me abt that but i assure u ... behind the back ... pple will snigger and comment de lor ... or how abt the sentence "its ok lah" then the next time pop up ... "aiya ... nm lah ... not the first time u did that" ... i mean ... come on ... if u gonna bring it up again publicly in future ... jolly well make it clear that it is forgiven but not forgotten then ... i think if it is between 2 persons and the past is brought up in future talk between juz the 2 persons it is still fine ... but to openly shoot it off is really really quite dotzz ...

seriously ... i dun really care how well perceived u r to others ... but sadly ... u dun mean much to me ... or rather ... the little worth i gave u is probably juz out of cliche which is meant to make things easy for another person ... but trust me ... as a fren maybe u do well ... but dun go ard pms-ing and well ... first few times might gain some results ... and it will become a burden as time goes by ... u can pms as u wish ...