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Monday, August 23, 2004


Aug 23 2004 --- Are you a reason, season or a lifetime ?


What is the link between a reason, a season and a lifetime ? It is juz the different types of pple we have in our life ... juz like eating rice there is chicken rice, duck rice, char siew rice, claypot rice ... yup ... pple step into our life and leave different kinds of footprints in us ... some deeper some more meaningful some hurting some unforgettable some sweet some undesirable ... but no matter who they are ... they form a part of our life ... we need to recognise that the basic intention of anyone entering our life is definately of good nature ... even though it may end up as nothing or may not even last for long ... it is still something that put us through the route of life which will prepare every single soul to for tougher future ... pple comes into my life as a reason, a season and likely a lifetime ... i have manage to identify pple from all three types ... can u ?

When someone is in your life for a REASON. . . It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

Or someone come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season …

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

hmm ... ya ... thanks for all who had stepped into my life at one point or another ... u have moulded me to be who i am today ... for the better or for the worse in the future, no one knows ... to reasons >> thanks for teaching me all the things i never knew ... to seasons >> u will always be in my heart ... deep in there ... i promise ... to lifetime >> years ahead i hope we will still be side by side ... embarking on the road less travelled ... may it last forever


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