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Sunday, November 13, 2016


Nov 13 2016 --- Of the last few months


Counting down and its 20 days more before i officially and legally dump my single status in exchange for married ~ the past months had been an exciting journey with the juggling of many things ~ looking back i guess its kinda like NS days ~ shitty when going thru but memorable when looking back ~~ i never expected wedding preparation can be that exhausting despite having tried our best to do it as simple as possible =x

but well ~ the good part is probably that we didnt stopped looking in the same direction despite all the bickers and stress we had over the preparation and we always end up coaxing each other that it will be over and our real wedded life will begin ~~ reno is in progress and as usual there is the constant nagging on when it would be ready ~ and seeing the progress and our home taking shape ~ i m kinda glad it would all be over soon and we will have the same home to return to ~~

beside the mental part ~ of coz not forgetting the monetary stress too ~~ every blardy thing in SG is about money~ and i cannot imagine the cash outlay and it really all CASH ... ok ... swipe credit card also need pay up next mth so its kinda also cash in a way =x and there is not such thing as wedding loan so ... yea ~~ $$$ ~ money no enuff ah!! but well ~~ kinda glad that we held onto each other and leverage onto each other ~~ ok ~~ rather is i leverage onto her coz she knew how heavy my family commitment is and she had taken it upon herself to foot my share for certain stuff ~~ i guess thats how we help each other out ~~

pple who know me well know that i m someone who is forgetful and short term memory but come to favors or letdowns ~ well ~~ can b assured that i will surely repay or revenge respectively ~ the sweet WTB of mine always like to ask me wat is that i like abt her ~ y i choose her ~~ well ~~ my reply would always be that the feeling come will know one mah ~ or the i value frens more than gf so if my gf is not my bff ~ the r/s wun work and so since she is like my bff ~~ i probably shld hum the song Lucky? lucky i m in love with my best fren so lucky to have duno wat lyrics xD but also the love for her stemmed deep in my heart coz of how she financially stood by my side when i was down ~ yes ~~ to find a good who is willing to share ur good times is easy even if i m not those yandao but trust me ~ if i m filthy rich ~ gers will still throw themselves to enjoy the good times but for the opposite? u can be sure they vanish faster than i can finish saying their name =x my dear WTB stood by my side when i was going thru the darkest financial period of my life and yea ~ the gratitude is forever there and i had always vowed to myself to give her the kind of life she deserves ~ that was really a moment in life when i knew she was a keeper and i had to keep her ~~

i took the first step into investment coz knowing my job would not make me any more advanced than where i was already at ~ yes ~ a decent job with a decent salary but it is not going to make me be able to give her the kind of life i want to give her ~ i finally took the plunge into JJPTR 6 mths back and well ~~ almost 6 mths today i can say that is like the best decision i made ~~ alot of skeptical remarks and doubts along the way ~ sniggers from even the closest of frens but thats ok ~ we each have our own beliefs and i truly respect that ~ but i m thankful for the handful who believe in me and decide to embark on the same journey with me ~ or even one old time fren who i know is going to be the fren for life kind ... i conned her unknowingly into this and almost 6 mths down the road ~ she is gradually accepting the idea and agreeing that it could help her gain more financial flexibility ~ that is the kind of satisfaction i get (other the the money i can make of coz xD) ~ in my last post i mentioned a job change in my mid 30s which i secretly wished for and yea ~ i can say that the change is taking shape quite well =D

i asked my WTB who had been going thru some rough patch at work wat would it take for her to feel comfortable about not working ~ well ~~ she told me $4k cash a mth and she will be leading a very comfy tai tai life ~ okie ~~ i gonna document down here to remind myself that it shall be the target that i will work towards ~ to get her a stable $4k passive income monthly so she dun have to work or face all the devils at work ~~ WTB ~ for all that u have done for me and all the faith u had in me ~ u deserve wat u b getting when this all come true ~ i love you bb ~~~ and i m counting down the next 20 days when we gonna be hubby & wife ~~

to our better days ahead ~~ HUAT AHHH ~~~~~ #JJPTR


KeL speaks @11:11 PM                                    _`天注定`_